Sunday, January 10, 2016

Have you seen the blog on my website?

I've pretty much neglected this blog for awhile, but I've still been blogging on my website! I just never posted about it.

Join me there if your'e so inclined!

Monday, October 21, 2013

Blog-o-sphere Think Tank - Oct. 2013 - Do you believe in destiny/ fate/ kismet (etc)?

Blog-o-sphere Think Tank - Oct. edition It's been a loooooong time since I've blogged. apparently.... almost a year! wowza! Do I believe in destiny/fate/kismet? Yes, in a matter of sorts... Do I believe that every action, every happening, every tiny detail is absolutely planned out and no matter what we do, every particular thing is bound to happen? No. not in that sense. I do believe that many things are "meant to be", that there are people we are bound to meet, experiences we are destined to have. I believe that most things happen for a reason, whether large or small. I also believe in free will and the ability to choose. I also believe that we have the ability to make things happen. I don't think that rules out the fact that certain things will happen in our lives regardless of what we do. I think we're here to learn certain lessons and those may come in a variety of shapes or forms. To look back at a string of events and see every detail that led to a current outcome, it is really difficult for me to think that things are just absolutely totally random and pointless. Or maybe it is just that I think life is more interesting believing this way ;) Check out what other people think this month:
Andes Cruz:
Kathleen Krucoff:
Catherine Witherell:
Robyn Hawk:

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Blog-o-sphere Think Tank - Favorite Smell!!

I have a few favorite smells... but I think my all time favorite combo is Lavender Vanilla. Something about that combo is just perfect!

I also really like coconut. Not fake coconut smells, but like actual coconut oil.

Well this might just be the easiest blog topic ever!

The end.

make sure to check out everyone else's!! (I mean, there's only 4, so you really have no excuse!)

Andes Cruz 
Barbara Donovan  

Monday, November 5, 2012

EtsyMetal Blog Carnival - November Edition - Why do you make jewelry?

 This month's topic is quite interesting, and pretty personal actually! But very easy for me to answer as it is something I've thought about a lot and have talked about quite a bit too.

When I went to college, my plan was to be a photography major. The universe had other plans for me and working 3d in metal was something that suited me much better. I like to work with my hands and build things and hammer things and get dirty and dear god, how I love tools.

I'd also thought of becoming a painting major as it was something I really loved too. But the reasons stated above completely won me over.

I love the inherent value metal has. From a marketing aspect, it is fabulous. The value of the metal is there, regardless. AND, it can be melted down again! Try doing that with any other medium. Once paint is on a canvas, it is gone. Yes, it can be painted over, but the cost of the paint is gone. Photos? Don't get my started on the mass of paper I have in boxes from printed photos that weren't quite right (you know, back in the day before digital, when you could process your own photos in a dark room). What can I do with a bad photo? Use it for a fire starter I guess!

I also really like the size of small metalwork/jewelry. I'm a small person and even though I loved working on large sculptural pieces, I often had to ask for help moving or holding something. Small hands lend themselves well to making jewelry. And on the topic of storage... I can store 100 pieces of jewelry in a very small space. 100 paintings? I'd need a storage unit, or a lot of wall space.

Those are all very practical reasons. On an emotional level, jewelry is often something really precious and symbolic. Even just a simple pendant can mean so much to someone. Jewelry often makes women feel beautiful, happy and better about themselves. (maybe men too, I just don't have as many male in the regular jewelry side of my work).

Several years ago, the transition to making wedding rings occurred. It wasn't super conscious, it kind of just happened all on it's own. I had reached a point where I felt like I was just making jewelry. Yes, I could tell myself all these lovely things, but I craved a deeper connection and meaning to my work. Creating wedding rings provides that for me. Something so symbolic and filled with love and meaning is incredibly special to create. I like to think good happy thoughts when I'm working on my rings, thoughts filled with love and devotion and lifetimes filled with happiness. It is one of the reasons I love seeing photos of couples I made rings for (especially their wedding photos). I can't help but think there is a little tiny bit of myself given with each ring, traveling to weddings around the world, allowing people to give a part of themselves to each other.

photo by SHOCKins Photograph

So that's it in a nutshell! Make sure to check out everyone else's posts this month - it's a full month - so enjoy! :)

Cynthia Del Giudice
Laura Jane Bouton
Peculiar Forest 
Tosca TerĂ¡n 
Mary Anne Karren
My Precious Studio
Deborah Lee Taylor
Anne Walker
Andrea Ring
Gracebourne Design
Danielle Miller 
Evelyn Markasky
Inbar Bareket 
Abella Blue

Thursday, October 4, 2012

Frequently Asked Questions

Hello hello!
I've had my FAQ posted on my Etsy policy page for awhile, but I thought having a nice complete list here would be most helpful and a maybe a bit broader in scope since some things may not have to do with Etsy. The questions and answers will be updated every so often, but hopefully each time you read it, it will be most current! Yay for editing on the interwebs!!


Yes! See here for more details:


If a new design is created, a $50 design fee may be added. If a simple alteration is desired, just ask, there is usually no charge for that!


No, all of my rings are “made from scratch”. Most designs are made from a huge lump of dark brown soft wax. This allows for any alterations you might like in addition to creating a truly unique ring for each of my customers.


Most of my rings are cast using the lost wax casting method. You can see my full process on my blog -


All of my metal comes from a supplier, Hoover and Strong, that offers 100% recycled metal. I recycle my own in addition to buying my “fresh” casting grain, sheet or wire from this company.

All of my diamonds are conflict free. I also use some synthetic stones (colored CZs) and will be adding similar options in the future including synthetic diamonds.


Ring sizes available 2 - 15 including 1/2, 1/4 and 1/8 sizes. Since each ring is made to order “from scratch”, I can make exactly the size you need.

As far as sizing for fit - Most hands do change through out the year, generally a little smaller in the winter and larger during the hottest months of the summer. Time of day can also affect sizing. Personally, my fingers are larger in the morning but after I get up and moving they are get back to their normal size.

Different people like a different fit for their rings. I prefer something as loose as possible but that never falls off. There are times during the winter when it gets close, but never does. And for the summer, its just perfect. I do not like when a ring is too tight - it makes me feel constricted and I find it really uncomfortable. Other people wear rings so tight that they can't come off and they don't find it to be a problem at all. The shape of the finger can have an effect too as to what would be comfortable for you. Some fingers are very slender and it doesn't take much for the sizing to be off. Other fingers are more "curvy" and as long as the ring can go over the knuckle, a full range of sizes will fit and be fine. The width of the ring can also affect the size of the ring. A narrow band can be much smaller and fit just fine, but for a wider ring (depending on how wide you get) The size may need to be 1/2 or even a full size larger. One of my fingers I can wear anywhere from a 5 (very narrow band), to a 6.5 (very wide 15mm+)

The ring sizers I offer are around 4mm which is a pretty standard width for most of my rings (4 - 6mm).
If you are sized at a jewelry store, make sure they use sizers that are close to the width of the ring you are interested in. Or try rings on that are the same width you want.

For the majority of my rings, it is easy to size them up a 1/4 or 1/2 size. Sizing down usually requires remaking the entire ring. The subtlety and love rocks bands are the easiest to size up or down.


I have samples of some rings in some metals. Feel free to ask if you know what design and metal you're interested in seeing in person. In some cases, two samples may be sent, one in the correct metal and one in the correct design. It just depends what I may have in stock. If you are looking for a wider than average ring I encourage asking for a wide sample to test out your correct size. A deposit is required for a sample. The amount is either put towards the ring being purchased or refunded at the time it is returned.


I do think my rings are comfortable - I wouldn’t want to make a ring that wasn’t. Though many of my designs are too wide or thick for my own personal preference. I have very small hands and wear a 3 1/4 - so large rings don’t make sense for me to wear every day, especially with some of the tools I use! I find that it really is about personal preference. Some people will want a very thick ring, while others like me need something a little daintier. Most of my styles can come in a narrow thinner version to a thicker chunkier version. Average widths are between 1.5 and 2mm thick.

Metal does wear over time. A softer metal such as sterling will show signs of wear faster than white gold or the palladium/silver alloy. Patinas over time will wear down as well. It may depend on the person as to how quickly it may wear down as well as the texture of the ring. For some, it may look nearly identical 20 years later, for others, it may wear down in a week or so. How quickly the patina wears also depends on the metal - see next section.


*New Silver/Palladium alloy - AGPD - the same metals in palladium sterling, but lower silver content, higher copper and much higher palladium making it much harder than sterling, but more more affordable than white gold. It is darker than sterling, but a touch lighter than 14k palladium white gold. Color wise, it is cooler than 14kpw since it doesn't have the high yellow gold content to compete with.


Sterling Silver - 92.5% fine silver, 7.5% copper. This is a standard sterling alloy. Fine silver (99.9) by itself is much too soft (in my opinion) for a ring. Sterling is much softer in comparison to gold (will wear faster), but the addition of copper makes sterling much stronger than fine silver.

Palladium Sterling Silver - 92.5% fine silver, roughly 4.5% copper and 3% palladium. Palladium is a more precious metal and a relative of platinum. It gives a little added preciousness to sterling and makes it a little harder and a little more expensive. The color is nearly identical to regular sterling, but has a very slightly warmer tone when they are next to each other.

Argentium Sterling Silver - 92.5% fine silver, 7.5% copper and germanium. Though I don’t cast with it often, it is an option. Similar to the palladium sterling, some of the copper is replaced by another metal, germanium. It gives some different and unique properties to the alloy. (different melting temps, tarnish resistant, fuses easily)

All the gold I use are alloys. 24k is close to as pure as you can get with gold and it is very soft. Mixing it with different metals creates a variety of properties and colors.

14k Yellow Gold - a traditional yellow gold. All 14k alloys contain 58.5% yellow gold. The other metals vary per alloy and in amount. I buy all of my casting grain alloyed already, so the make up per % of the rest of the alloys is unknown to me.

14k Palladium White Gold - contains 58.5% gold, and instead of nickel as in traditional white gold, it contains palladium as a "bleaching" metal. The color is often referred to as “straw white” though I think of it as a “warm steel” color. It is a lovely soft and buttery gray color that is not plated in rhodium as traditional white golds are. If you are attempting to match a current white gold ring, be aware that it may not. It is the hardest of all the metals I use and is more expensive than other 14k alloys. The qualities that give it added hardness as far as wear is concerned, also make it harder to work with. This and the added value of the palladium are the reasons for it being more expensive than the other 14k alloys.

Palladium is in the platinum family and makes the alloy overall and more precious metal. (though palladium is much less expensive than platinum!) If you want the bright white look, you are more than welcome to have your ring plated at your local jewelry store. Most rhodium plating needs to be redone every year or couple years depending on your wear.

Palladium white gold will take a patina, though it is not as dark as the patina on sterling, nor is the contrast as great since the metal is darker and the patina not as dark. There are several comparison shots if you search for “comparison” on my flickr site: The patina also does not wear as well and for most textures may wear off very quickly.

14k Rose/Red Gold - a lovely coppery rosy reddish toned gold - again contains 58.5% gold. Can take a light patina, though wears off more quickly, so starting out with just a little is best.

14k non traditional colors - Though not commonly used, brighter “royal” yellow, green and peach gold - just slight variations of a traditional yellow.

18k - contains 75.2% gold - due to the higher gold content, 18k alloys have a different color than their 14k relatives. Most commonly requested for the subtlety bands, though I can upgrade most styles to 18k instead of 14k. It is a little softer, quite a bit heavier/denser, and more expensive.


No. Rhodium plating is common for traditional white gold and much of the mass produced commercial jewelry is also plated in rhodium for a bright white finish that doesn’t tarnish. Plating WILL wear off over time. I do not offer the service, though most jewelry stores can rhodium plate a ring for you if you want.


I am not able to personally cast with either in my studio, though I use a larger casting company that has the facilities to cast both of these metals. The melting temperatures are much higher than I am able to do with the equipment I use for silvers and golds. A model can be made in sterling and then sent off to be molded and cast in either of these metals. Generally this adds an extra 3 - 4 weeks. For some styles, such as the subtlety, love rocks or sands of time, I can buy a ring blank and create a ring that looks just like my cast bands. This is often less expensive and faster than having them mold and cast a sterling model.


For rings that get worn ever day, the natural oils from your skin and constant wear should keep it an even color and shine. Certain chemicals like chlorine can cause a bad reaction and dull or even darken the metal. I find that it will come off as you wear it, though a polishing cloth can be used to clean it up. It is best if you frequently are around chlorine to take the ring off as it can corrode the metal with prolonged exposure.

For jewelry that gets taken off, with proper storage, your piece should remain lovely for a long time. Air and moisture cause tarnish and letting a piece sit on the bathroom counter will dull it rather quickly (yes I know this by experience!). Keeping it in a bag or box will help to keep this from happening.

Some of the patinas will wear down over time - in addition textures of a ring may develop their own patina naturally. This will depend on the wearer.

Most bands that are worn every day will show signs of age, little nicks or dings or scrapes. I try to design most of my rings to fit lovingly with this natural progression of your wedding band. I also tend to make my rings a bit thicker than a lot of traditional bands to give a longer life and sturdier product for every day wear.


Everyone has a different body chemistry and will react (or not react) to different metals or chemicals. Usually an allergic reaction occurs when another chemical is introduced and gets trapped between the ring and the skin. Certain lotions, perfumes or soaps can cause a reaction. While one person may be able to wear a particular metal and use lotion with no reaction, their spouse may have a completely different reaction due to their own personal body chemistry. People are different and not everyone can wear the same metals.

The most common metal allergies are copper and nickel. I have a completely nickel free studio, though there are small amounts of copper in all of the alloys I use. I have had some great feedback for the palladium sterling and palladium white gold. Some customers w/ a slight intolerance to regular sterling have worn the palladium sterling with no problem. Since there is no nickel in the palladium white gold, it is an excellent alternative to customers who have had problems with standard white gold.

Rhodium plating often tricks people in to thinking they are not allergic to certain metals - though as they plating wears off, they may find that they are in fact allergic to the metal underneath. None of my rings are plated with rhodium or any other metal.


No, not at this time. Some designs may be available for a sample ring to be sent.


Beth is pretty self explanatory (and just Beth, no Bethany or Elizabeth or anything)
Cyr is pronounced like "Sear". Family lineage to CT, ME, Canada and France.

If you have any questions or comments, please let me know!

For right now, info on payment, shipping, returns, etc are on my Etsy Policy page. I will be doing posts for each of those separately in the next month or so. For the mean time, just check out Etsy!

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Blogosphere Think Tank - Favorite Color

This month's topic - favorite color - or as Andes says - Favourite Colour!

Well, I can tell you what my favorite color isn't. Red.
then Yellow.

then, it's kind of a toss up.
For a long time blue - particularly light blue, was my favorite.

Then green - a bright lovely grass green or really any shade of leaf or plant color green.

Then it was orange.  Great color for the studio!!

My newest favorite is purple. 

If a color is to be chosen, now it's purple.... or orange, or green, or blue...

Make sure to check out everyone else's favorite color... or colors!

Andes Cruz:

Natsuko Hanks:
Kathleen Krucoff:
Barbara Donovan:

Monday, September 3, 2012

EtsyMetal Blog Carnival - September 2012 - Pets!

This month's theme is all about pets.
This is my sweet girl, Nya. We just have one kitty because she is so awesome. Incredibly soft and sweet and snuggley (apparently that's not a word... but it's true). She is the best cat ever. And I know a lot of people say that, but I had 4 cats growing up that I thought were all pretty awesome. But this little rescued gal wins. I mean, just look at that face! I just want to kiss and love on her sweetness all the time. Anyway, yup, she's perfect.

Make sure to check out everyone else's perfect pets!

Laney (silentgoddess)
Evelyn Markasky 
Erin Austin
Rebecca Bogan
Victoria Takahashi/Experimetal
Lou Hunter
Cynthia Del Giudice

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

has etsy started a shopping revolution?

I have to admit, this graphic makes me ever more hopeful that Etsy will be a greater change to the way we shop - buying more from individuals and small businesses as opposed to large companies.

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